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posted on Apr 2, 2008

I hope that this page can help. I am 23 years old and married, we have a wonderful and hansome son. He is only 13 months old. We are having a terrible time with not being able to pay rent. Starting in May we will be paying $247 in rent. I know that is not alot in some people's eyes. But at the beginning of each month I do all the bills and it always leaves me with $30 dollars. That is with only paying $148 a month now.  I am hoping that some one out there can help me. I have no clue what to do, I need advice to help with credit debt the sooner i get that done and gone the sooner I can make sure we keep our place to live. We even thought about moving back to a family members house but then we lose my disablity money. So that would leave no money for anything at all. I don't know. mabey i am freaking about nothing I know there is more people on here with more serious problems. If anyone can help with anything..it would be so great... please contact me at

tabbylincat@yahoo.com

Please any help would be so greatful. why is the goverment looking the other way when there are so many familes out there strugglin to survive?

godbless all the angels on this site!!

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3. tabbylincat posted on Apr 2, 2008
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thank you so much. I read your reply and it kinda made me cry. I thougth that no one eles felt the way I did. It just seems like no matter what no one can get ahead. low income house had gone down the drain. I live in a small, and I mean small town in Pa and we had a shooting in out housing all over someone gf, there had been a few attempts of break-in's. I mean it is just stupid, i really do not think that a new president will help either. I know we are all in trouble because bush. But I mean we have all seen it there are so many promises made right now by the canadates, once again empty. I mean I hope with all my heart they are going to do what they say. But I mean how much do you think they can change? I had a friend take me to the store the other day to get some milk because I had run out. I took 3 dollars with me. I had to ask a friend to borrow money a gallon of milk was $4.56...can you believe that??!!

 To the people that said everyone on here should not have children if they can not care for them. Well when I first had my son everything was fine. It seems like in that last 4months that everything has gone down hill. I mean It is not like I hae been strugglin with my husband before, in the last few months society can delt us a bad hand. I can't believe what people are going through. why are so many people in the same situation? Everytime you turn around someone is getting evicted. You know there are no jobs out there. there is no work for the people who actully want to work. ok I think I am done ranting..thank you again all you actully cared to reply.

tabby

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2. sher1 posted on Apr 2, 2008

Good post!  How is this so is what I want to know also. I made almost 50 k per yr working for the airline's and a moving company in my spare time, now  2 of us are  on my daughters childsupport check at 81 a week  since my account is over drawn  I have to cash it at one of those places and pay a fee.  The emergency food stamps I applied for and was approved for on March 7th have still not arrived and it was supposed to take 5 to 7 day's. They are currently trying to find out what happened so out of 81 a week for 2   thats  food ,laundry,gas  we will e on the street when they do arrive.  Every night on the news they are showing the eviction teams throwing people out on the street, the power company came this morning and I managed to plead with the guy not to shut me off until Friday as we are packing and cleaning to leave.  He first said he couldn't then he knocked on the door and said he would do it just this time as he has 166 cutoffs   Can you even fathom THAT?   166 & this is not a large area so i was helped from god this morning in that area.   This is just horrific how many of us need to go on the street . Good luck to all on here especially all of us who will e living in the car this weekend.

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1. texfamily posted on Apr 2, 2008

 Hi, 

In response to your post I have  a son who is mentally disabled so I know what your going through,  but mostly at the end of your post you mentioned the government turning a blind eye to families in need.  Also on this site a noticed some negative responses telling people they shouldn't have children if they can't afford them.  Well in response to that who knew we were going to war and gasoline would go up 21/2 dollars since then!  Who knew that food would become so outrageous to buy since Katrina,  and who knew that the drug epidemic would take over the USA and leave everyone else broke and  or in submissive debt, kill our family members to where we all have to spend at least a 1/3 of our income burying members of our families way to early in our lives?  Who knew that credit card and mortgage lenders would basically "FRONT" everything and then take it all away?  Whomever post comments like these is a complete idiot, uneducated and just plain blind and uncaring about what is going on in the world especially here in the USA!!  It is all our responsibility to take care of the children.  It is not for you or the government to make it impossible to get food without FIRST being HUMILIATED especially after all the taxes we paid over the yrs and all the lenders made off us.  How pathetic for the gov not to care or help.  And then take it to the point of embarressing you when you need help.  What kind of people are these?  What kind of country is this? 

tabbylin cat I pray for you and I hope your situation gets much better in future because even if people are disabled in any way  deserve a normal happy life just as much as the lawyer down the road whom does not have any problems finacially. 

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